A Heartfelt Journey: Carol Burnett’s Reflections on Career and Loss

Beloved entertainer Carol Burnett is soon approaching her 90th birthday in April 2023. As she looks back on her illustrious career filled with professional triumphs, she also recounts the personal losses that have deeply affected her. Best known for her trailblazing comedy variety series, “The Carol Burnett Show,” she reflects on the profound grief she experienced with the loss of her daughter, Carrie Hamilton, in 2002.

In a heartfelt conversation with PEOPLE, Burnett shared the enduring connection she feels with her late daughter, saying, “There’s not a day or almost a moment goes by that she’s not with me. We worked together, we laughed together, we cried together. She was a force.” Like her mother, Carrie pursued a career in acting and made her mark with roles in “Fame” and films such as “Tokyo Pop” and “Shag.”

Carrie’s journey was not without its challenges. She bravely faced drug addiction and fought a formidable battle against lung cancer, which eventually spread to her brain. Tragically, she passed away in January of the following year, at just 38 years old. Burnett fondly recalls her daughter’s resilience and positive outlook, sharing an insightful conversation they had during her illness. When asked how she maintained her cheerful demeanor, Carrie replied, “Everyday I wake up and decide.” This simple yet powerful sentiment has stayed with Burnett, serving as a daily reminder of the importance of choosing one’s attitude.

The loss of Carrie heightened Burnett’s awareness of life’s fragility. She reflects, “You don’t know. Life can change on a dime. So just be grateful for today and what you have.” To honor her daughter’s memory and their enduring bond, Burnett penned a memoir in 2014 titled “Carrie and Me: A Mother-Daughter Love Story,” sharing their shared experiences and the strength of their connection.

Approaching the significant milestone of turning 90 on April 26, Carol Burnett finds herself in a mix of disbelief and gratitude. With a touch of humor, she remarks, “I can’t wrap my head around it. I still feel like I’m about 11, but I’m amazed. It sure went fast. But I’m glad because I’ve got all my parts — got my hips, I got my knees, and I’ve got my brain, so I’m happy about that.”

As she reflects on her life and career, Burnett hopes to be remembered for bringing joy to her fans during tough times. She shares, “In my fan mail, many people say it was the only time their family would get together, to watch and laugh. And that sometimes, they were feeling lonely and our show cheered them up. That’s a good feeling.” Her legacy extends beyond laughter and entertainment; it embodies resilience and warmth, qualities shared with her late daughter, Carrie.

Through her stories and reflections, Carol Burnett reminds us to cherish the present, embrace resilience, and find joy in the simple moments of life. Let us celebrate the remarkable journey of this beloved entertainer as she continues to inspire and bring laughter to our lives.